More on feelings...
No one on a good day declares with what sense he perceives the world.
Many people do not knowthis about themselves. They are convinced that all people
perceive the reality that surrounds themas they do. They think we're all the same in
that respect. For example, we see the world through our eyes. This is the source of
many misunderstandings. There are often mixed types, where the two senses are
decisive in equal measure or in different proportions. An additional difficulty is the
ways of expressing feelings. Generally, they can be divided into the sensual and
psychological ones.
There are people who, in order to feel loved, need attention and words of
appreciation from their partner, others prefer gifts. Some see the time and attention
spent together as proof of love, while others see practical help or physical closeness
and touch. Thus, each person perceives intimacy in a different way and shows
his love in a different way.
Example: If a man prefers touch and physical closeness, this is how he will show
love to his partner and expect the same from her as proof of love and commitment
to the relationship.
However, if a woman prefers time and attention spent together and is an auditory
learner, she will expect long conversations about joint plans, etc. from her partner.
In such a relationship, both will feel bad if they do not meet each other's
expectations. Their need for closeness will not be met. They will feel lonely and
unloved. And a little understanding of the partner's needs would be enough to make
both of them happy and feel loved. A relationship based on getting to know each
other's preferences gives a sense of security to each of the parties
